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Edited by brOwniiez: 1/18/2015 7:54:42 AM
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Break Up and Keep Playing or ... NEED ADVICE

So my girlfriend gets pissed when I come home from work and play until I gotta go to work the next morning... So I don't sleep anymore at all, I really don't wanna miss out on any Loot, so I spend all my hours spare grinding Phogoth strike over and over... But I need advice she seems pretty pissed lately and acting as if I must choose between her and work or Destiny! It's pretty selfish of her IMO. I don't know if to break up with my girlfriend or give up playing for a few months.... Please reply with some advice fellow Guardians! Thanks

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  • Pick up cocaine, and spend some time with your girl. Or stop failing at life. Witch ever option works

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  • Picking destiny over getting laid is a no brainer dude, you know what to do. #figureitout

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  • Honestly it sounds more like an issue with you than anything. How are you functioning without sleep? Is your personal life besides your girlfriend suffering? I'd be annoyed if you were just a friend who did this. As much as I hate to say it gaming to that level is unhealthy. Sure we all do the occasional 24 hour binges (did a 48 once, that was good weekend) but daily?

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  • If you really need to ask for relationship advice from a gaming community you don't deserve her and should just stick to gaming... That aside, I would tell you to just take a break from destiny. I mean it's just a game, right?

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    • Think about it like this, destiny won't be around for forever, you will get sick of it, and bored of playing it. But this girl you can really start a life with. You can marry her and start a family with her. Honestly, I think it's ridiculous that you have to actually ask others for advice on the easiest answer. I really don't know what she sees in you. She shouldn't be with someone who actually considers picking a game over a girl. Quite pathetic.

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    • Is this a joke?

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    • Edited by Xernos Edge: 1/19/2015 4:17:58 AM
      dudee that tooo much....... dont be too hardcore. You need to take a break dammit. A vagina is more than destiny. Dont take it for granted. ; (

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    • Don't get mad if she cheats on you because it would be you're fault for not loving her.

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    • Jesus christ, almost 650 hours?

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    • Take a break. The real world is always more important than a video game. Plus destiny is better after a break from it anyway. When CoD AW came out I played that for a couple weeks and I came back to destiny and it felt so refreshing. I love the game now even if the grind isn't rewarding

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    • I had the same problem for a couple months then I got over my Destiny fever

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    • Is she fat?

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    • Couple things here, feel free to disagree on any of it....... If you ain't spending any time with your girl, it's over unless you shape up and treat her right. If your going to a game forum for an "ask Abby" corner, things are probably further gone than you think already. If your literally spending all your free time on the game, ya might want to take ask step back, if not for your girl for your own damn health. Also, if it's real, a girl would never make you give up a hobby (as long as it's not taking all your free time)

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    • Shut up troll

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    • Get her some friends.

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    • go to bed, Meg.

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    • Are you -blam!-ing kidding? Joke right?

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    • PIIHB

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    • Edited by Scova: 1/19/2015 3:43:15 AM
      Are you serious??? Vagina or a -blam!-ing video game. If you choose option 2 then you don't deserve her. Human contact is way more important then sitting in a room for hours on end. Btw it's selfish of you to just want to play destiny and not hang with you're girl

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    • Just giver her that "D" 30 seconds in and out. Then it's back to the grind. That's enough time to load a strike

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    • The fact you would even consider asking this question tells me you probably dont love her and you should end it now before you end up married to someone you dont love

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    • Spend more time with your girlfriend you may not get another

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    • No matter what you choose, at least you have gjallarhorn

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    • You're also being selfish, you just basically said your neglecting her and making her feel like shes not there, your addicted, play but real life comes first, who cares about some loot unless you'd prefer being single and alone?

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    • If you dont even sleep because of destiny, stay with your girlfriend.

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    • I'd say stay, you can afford to lay off a video game, relationships are more worthwhile in the long run

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