I think if you put your heritage or gender in your username, you're more likely to get extra attention, positive and negative. And I'm saying she shouldn't complain if she makes it easy. She's complaining about somebody finding pictures of her when she posted one herself in a picture thread, and stated numerous times she's a girl, and flirted with various members. So she does all these things, then complains she's getting the wrong kind of attention? It's like a black man going to a KKK rally not expecting trouble. There are creeps on the internet, and it's a hell of a lot easier for them to be creepy if you get rid of your anonymity. Because she doesn't just say she's a girl and be done with it, she does much more because she likes the positive attention. What I'm saying is, don't do things for attention, and then complain when you get the wrong kind of attention. It's an internet forum, people are going to be jerks and they're going to be creepy.