[quote]Unfortunately many males think that their comments are just in good fun and don't hurt anyone which is also completely incorrect.[/quote] I don't believe that for a second. You don't think they acknowledge they're making a comment which could hurt someone's feelings when saying they're unattractive and whatnot? Of course they do. They WANT to be hurtful. There's no way of justifying saying mean things to someone themselves, you clearly want to hurt their feelings.