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Edited by EZ: 4/3/2025 4:46:13 PM
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What can be done about harassment

I don’t even know where to start but me and my sister have made this clan to make people feel positive and included and it’s been nothing but hatefulness mostly with my sister this one clan wanted to merge with us and after he wasn’t active or playing with people my sister decided to kick him nothing personal we just want active players and people that are somewhat social and he’s been targeting my sister ever since calling her offensive names and making multiple discord accounts to pm her and my sister is getting overwhelmed with it because she has tried contacting bungie and discord and they won’t do anything about this harassment his clan members has infiltrated our discord multiple times trying to get it deleted and his clan members has also started harassing me now just because I’m related to her so I’m asking for anyone’s help and advice what I can do about this to get this to stop because this is not right. I have screenshots to prove my post is real as well so I’m not lying about any of this every post I’ve made they’ve commented on it calling me slurs and offensive names mostly directed towards my sister so I’m calling for the communities help. [spoiler]Moderator edit: This thread has been updated with tags that are more appropriate. Feel free to private message the moderator who moved your post, link to topic, for further clarification about why this topic was moved.[/spoiler]
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  • Edited by EZ: 4/3/2025 4:57:17 PM
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  • Sadly this is fairly standard for this community

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    • Just close the discord???

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        What is so hard about just making your clan and discord private, turning off message requests, and just not looking at the messages? If you keep giving them the attention and satisfaction of seeing you angry it will never stop.

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        • OP: Apart from the other good advice posted by other reasonable Guardians, you might also consider the following two suggestions… 1. Contact your local F.B.I. Office 👈 2. Change your Destiny name b4 you do 👈👈 That is all. Ease Springs! 🫡

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          • Edited by BoboVett: 4/2/2025 11:18:02 AM
            Wow, sorry to hear. I got tired from reading you post. May I make one suggestion? Try breaking up your one long sentence and make several sentences with Periods. Best

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            • Bungie can't and won't do anything about another company's platform. Make your clan invite only and the same with the discord and then just have her block the accounts or don't add them. Discord doesn't deliver messages unless either person accepts the friend request.

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            • Private invite only discord. Possibly make secondary discord accounts not associated with the original if necessary. Keep reporting the abuse. Ignore the petty ppl.

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            • [quote]I don’t even know where to start but me and my sister have made this clan to make people feel positive and included and it’s been nothing but hatefulness mostly with my sister this one clan wanted to merge with us and after he wasn’t active or playing with people my sister decided to kick him nothing personal we just want active players and people that are somewhat social and he’s been targeting my sister ever since calling her offensive names and making multiple discord accounts to pm her and my sister is getting overwhelmed with it because she has tried contacting bungie and discord and they won’t do anything about this harassment his clan members has infiltrated our discord multiple times trying to get it deleted and his clan members has also started harassing me now just because I’m related to her so I’m asking for anyone’s help and advice what I can do about this to get this to stop because this is not right. I have screenshots to prove my post is real as well so I’m not lying about any of this every post I’ve made they’ve commented on it calling me slurs and offensive names mostly directed towards my sister so I’m calling for the communities help.[/quote] Block and privacy settings to stop random accounts from being able to message you. Also ignoring it will just make the offender get bored.

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            • Change setting so only friends can Dm you on discord or people in the server contact discord block him on bungie and if it still continues file a police report.

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            • Tell they ahhhs that their lame ahhhs have nothing better to do than to pick on a girl trying to play a game, make em realize they just making themself look dumb and block them 🙏

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              • If outside the game notify authorities.

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              • Edited by Killapete232: 4/1/2025 2:40:22 PM
                As a clan leader since D1 Alpha you and your sister are in control of your clan. Despite merging they joined your clan and you will see fit to it's livelihood. If players are no longer active that's on those players, you must keep your clan active and by doing so needs to be maintained accordingly. Rule with an iron fist while also being the clans upholding leaders, set standards as you see fit while keeping it civil. Do not take things to heart, avoid toxicity for the clan environment to keep it fun and engaging, and be sure to have active players understand these things when they join. In my clan I have no requirements aside from help out if can, play by your own Accord, and do not be toxic. Ego can get the best of us, in the end it's just a game, clans are meant to be a place for like minded individuals to enjoy the game as part of a small portion of a big community. Enjoy Destiny 2 Eyes Up Guardians 🍻

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              • [quote]I don’t even know where to start but me and my sister have made this clan to make people feel positive and included and it’s been nothing but hatefulness mostly with my sister this one clan wanted to merge with us and after he wasn’t active or playing with people my sister decided to kick him nothing personal we just want active players and people that are somewhat social and he’s been targeting my sister ever since calling her offensive names and making multiple discord accounts to pm her and my sister is getting overwhelmed with it because she has tried contacting bungie and discord and they won’t do anything about this harassment his clan members has infiltrated our discord multiple times trying to get it deleted and his clan members has also started harassing me now just because I’m related to her so I’m asking for anyone’s help and advice what I can do about this to get this to stop because this is not right. I have screenshots to prove my post is real as well so I’m not lying about any of this every post I’ve made they’ve commented on it calling me slurs and offensive names mostly directed towards my sister so I’m calling for the communities help.[/quote] Bungie will absolutely not do anything about discord and they shouldn't. Privatize your discord and have her change her Bungie and discord setting. This isn't complicated , no one wants to deal with this stuff but this is the Internet.

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                • I think all you can really do is make your discord invite only, and block/ban all the people who are harassing you guys, make it to where they can’t join any server you two are connected too and they won’t be able to message you unless they are your friends on discord which hopefully at this point they aren’t. And make sure to block them on bungie and unless they know who you are irl there should be no feasible way for them to contact you.

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                  • report them.

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