If this is a troll ..... Good one. If not ..... I don't believe in divorce even amid adultery. You guys both said your vows and should take them to the end! But that ring said you've gotta be stupid. You have a family and decided to throw it away for a one night fling? Now you'll have to beg and plead for your wife bit to leave you which I hope you guys get counseling .... Pastors at a church are great for this. Now your son gets to see how a man he was supposed to look up to and see that if this is how my dad treats mom then why respect you. I don't blame them for giving her the cold shoulder she shouldn't even be in the picture! You screwed up big time and now your son has this example of how a family works, and your wife has to be paranoid and can't trust you .... Great family environment .... Why cause you can't control yourself and be a husband and father? Bad form.