The last line is what was throwing me off.
Anyways, just open up and be honest. Ask her why things have changed all of a sudden. Why the change in tone in conversation. She could be interested in someone else or maybe simply having second thoughts. Maybe she is pulling back and reeling back as well?
I think when a girl says "I'm a mess" that its a subtle way of trying to ward a guy off, like maybe she's not ready to give herself to someone else just yet.
The OP thing was for my thread, sorry.
But yeah I'm still outta town, and figured something like this is better suited for a face to face discussion, so I'll bring it up when I see her next.
The mess comment I can see that now that you said it, it makes sense.. And I'm a little bummed I didn't notice it. But I'm just going to ease off until I'm back in town and see if she's free for lunch or something to talk.
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